More about Doulas and Midwives

Not long ago midwives for birthing were not in the mainstream. Now look at the consciousness of this sacred practice. Those of us who specialize in assisting families through a loved one's death are called midwives too. We support the family in the final transition from this life.

When there is an experienced, knowledgeable doula/midwife as part of a family's support system there is a relaxation that happens within. They know someone is there who 'knows' what is going on and can handle whatever may come. The midwife will guide the family about what is to come and how to best support their loved one and each other. We educate about the process of dying because we know that with information much anxiety is relieved.

Spiritual and emotional support is paramount at this time, for this is the 'being' of the person and their family right now. When the person is physically comfortable, then other important matters can be addressed. Doulas/midwives enable this process because everyone knows there is a loving, stabilizing presence. They are more free to tend to their loved one and each other instead of worrying about 'what to do.'

Doulas/midwives for the dying are needed now more than ever. There is a reclaiming of death as being a part of the natural order of life, instead of a failure of treatment or a medical event. Since many of us have not been part of this process with our families over the years, doulas/midwives are those gentle guides as we keep our loved ones close to home and out of the hospitals.

Doulas and midwives for the dying are a significant part of this transition.